Know what to say in 40 hard moments

Stop the Chaos!

What to say and do to defuse 40 challenging dementia behaviors.

102-page manual · Instant PDF download · 3 quick guides included

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Two pages for each behavior. The fast answer is on the left: what to say and what not to say. More phrases, a do and don't list, home changes and when to call the doctor are on the right.

What's inside

40 behaviors, each with a two-page spread
120 “say this, not that” swaps
The C.A.L.M. method for any hard moment
A printable behavior detective log
Included: Move to Calm and the 30-Day Brain Engagement Calendar, plus a print copy of the Calm-Down Cheat Sheet
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Look inside

A real two-page spread from the book: “I want to go home.” Tap the picture to enlarge.

What you get: the manual and three quick guides. Tap the picture to enlarge.

What happens after you buy

Pay on the secure checkout page. One payment of $17.
Your downloads open right away. The link is also emailed to you.
Read it on your phone or print it. Open to the behavior you're dealing with.

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Questions before you buy

Is this a physical book?

No. It's a digital PDF you download right away. Read it on any phone, tablet or computer, or print it at home or at a print shop.

How do I get it?

Your downloads open right after you pay, and the link is also emailed to you.

Is it a subscription?

No. You pay once.

I don't have time to read a whole book.

You don't have to. It's a manual. Open to the behavior you're dealing with and read the left page. It takes about 30 seconds.

Who is it for?

Family caregivers of someone with any type of dementia, including Alzheimer's, vascular, Lewy body and frontotemporal dementia.

Can I share it with my family?

Yes. Please share it with the family members and aides who help with care, so everyone uses the same calming words. Please don't post or resell it publicly.

Is this medical advice?

No. It's practical, educational guidance from an occupational therapist. Every behavior includes when to call the doctor.

What if it doesn't help?

Email us within 30 days for a full refund. Read the guarantee.

By Dr. Fernando Vera, occupational therapist. Education, not medical advice.